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Now, you want to become acquainted with a woman you see in public. Human connection, love, romance: there is nothing wrong with these yearnings. Miss LonelyHearts, your humble instructor, approves. So you must look further afield to encounter her. Unfortunately, you don’t yet know that woman-she isn’t working with you, nor have you been introduced through mutual friends or drawn to the same activities. In fact, you would really like to have a mutually respectful and loving sexual relationship with a woman. You tell jokes without laughing at your own punchlines. Let me start out by assuring you that I understand you are a good sort of person.

She practices Brazilian jiu-jitsu and makes world-class apricot muffins. Phaedra Starling is the pen name of a romance novelist and licensed private investigator living in small New York City apartment with two large dogs. Not taking personal responsibility for making the society you live in safer is a shitty thing to do. You do not want to be part of the problem, so don’t be that guy or girl who glosses over someones “personal problems” or laughs at a rape joke or endorses the other 101 quadrillion bits of misogyny that passes as humour these days. Starling writes with brilliant clarity on a topic that troubles me greatly, she lays down exactly what being female is in our culture, exposing the double standards, patriarchy, and rape culture that are inherent in our society. This is a “S2” moment, as in Sit the frack down and Shut the frack up. This is a compete repost of what guest blogger Starling on Shapely Prose, says about our rape culture and how it works for the people who have no choice but to live within its confines.